Finding Peace. Piece by Piece.
When friends leave my house, they probably don’t feel horrified by the condition of the place. It looks fine. Usually. But I promise you there are cabinets and closets you would not want to open without protective gear!
I have gotten way too comfortable lately with the words I’ll get to it.
I’ll get to it (toss it in the basement). I’ll get to it (add it to the stack). I’ll get to it (shove it in the closet).
Now I am gaping at a mounting mess, and it might as well be piled on my head.
Distracting disarray.
I have been here before. I arrived at this same frustrating place a few years ago as I transitioned from babies to “big kids.” Sifting through toddler toys when all my kids jumped on the school bus. But in that season, I could focus my time and energy on a house ransack project and just get after it.
Today, everyone who lives under the roof of my cluttered house is busier than ever. There is already too much to squeeze into the day, so the mere thought of tackling this giant task results in a sudden neck twitch.
And I can easily opt for the divine art of procrastination if something feels too big. Too much. Too tedious. I fear that I couldn’t possibly arrive at completion, so I don’t even start. Can you relate?
Our 30th president, Calvin Coolidge, left us these beautiful words, “We cannot do everything at once, but we can do something at once.”
There is power in the simplicity of his statement. It encourages us to look at whatever is overwhelming us, and ask ourselves what we can do about it today. One thing. Something small. Something realistic. Something now.
So in my case, instead of looking at my entire house, or even at one room, I can commit to organizing a desk today. And the blasted Tupperware tomorrow. Next week I could give some love to that neglected closet. With a little bit of planning, and a lot of patience and grace, I will slowly get through everything. Reclaiming order. Restoring sanity.
One little movement at a time and we can get there. Whether we’re talking about physical clutter, or the emotional clutter of a struggling relationship, an unfulfilling career, an unhealthy habit, a looming big decision, a daunting project, an immovable fear. We can do something today to lift that burden even the tiniest bit.
Piece by piece.
Peace.
For the spirit of God does not make us timid, but gives us power, love, and self-discipline.
2 Timothy 1:7
September 13, 2017 at 11:44 pm
Lisa-
With the hustle and bustle of a new school year it is easy to lose persepective. Everything seems to be on fast forward.
You are right… the best structures and relationships in my life are those I’ve had time to foster and appreciate! I will take a deep breath and move forward one step at a time. Thanks Calvin Coolidge and thanks Lisa!
September 14, 2017 at 2:33 pm
Thanks Amy! Hope this start to the new school year goes smoothly for you. The transition can always be a bit shaky.
September 14, 2017 at 2:03 am
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you for your constant inspiration and motivation.
September 14, 2017 at 2:38 pm
Ah, it’s great when we receive the words we need at just the right moment. God is good. Thanks for reading and commenting.
September 14, 2017 at 3:23 am
Refreshing words for my over-stimulated back to school brain! Yes, bit by bit and piece by piece we can eek our way out of the pits we’ve dug for ourselves! Especially with 2 Timothy 1:7 to focus us!
September 14, 2017 at 2:30 pm
Thanks Allison. It’s an encouraging verse, one of my favorites. Power, love, and self-discipline. Like a mantra:)
September 15, 2017 at 3:28 pm
Piece by piece is what I needed to hear!! I have a lot of projects waiting for me to get started with – Thanks for the wisdom Lisa and Calvin Coolidge ; )
September 15, 2017 at 8:21 pm
That initial step to getting started is always the hardest. Good luck with your projects:)
September 16, 2017 at 1:04 am
Lisa, I relaxed some just reading the way you seemed to be looking at the problems in my home. Ok, take a deep breath and approach each challenge as one, a piece at a time, that really will give me PEACE. Looking at the whole puzzle of disorganization, really can be overwhelming. I go from piece to piece, busy all the time, yet not one thing is completely accomplished! Very Frustrating. I’ll take your advice, Thanks so much!!
September 16, 2017 at 2:23 pm
Hi Peg! Thankful I could help and bring you some peace.
September 29, 2017 at 4:36 pm
I just found a little bit of time today to catch up on emails and decided to read this one with the blog link……EXACTLY what I needed today. I am overwhelmed with the tasks and clutter. I needed to hear, “just take it one task at a time.” : ) Thanks!!! Perfect timing.
January 31, 2018 at 10:31 pm
Yay! I love when it works out like that Kate. Happy you found just what you needed.