Detours and Delays
Because the bridge is out!
For the past seven months, these words have been the response to more questions than you might think. Why is there so much traffic? Why do we have to leave early? Why did they change the bus route? Why can’t we carpool with our friends? Why are we trying a different pizza place?
The stinkin bridge. The bridge that connects us to important destinations like the kids’ schools, multiple weekly activities, local businesses we visit regularly, and many of our favorite people.
The detour during this necessary bridge replacement was significant. During certain times of day, it wouldn’t be unusual for travel time to double. And the alternate bridge option is crazy narrow. Like two drivers heading in opposite directions could high five through open windows. No kidding. That narrow. It’s great fun for trucks and busses!
One day I was at our local hardware store, right next to the closed bridge, and I let go of my annoyance to marvel at the construction site. The workers were making serious strides. Laboring with purpose—they were creating a new and improved structure to benefit our community for generations to come. An enormous undertaking. Was it painfully unpleasant while they completed it? You bet. But it was going to be remarkable. In time.
In time.
The detours in our lives follow a similar course. There we are, zipping through our days. All is well in the world. And then bam. Road closed. Detour.
Unlike the beautiful visual of the road crew making steady progress, we can’t always see what God is up to during our detours. But we can trust that He is faithful. We can confidently follow the detour, even when it stinks, knowing that He has us covered. Remembering that He will complete the work He has begun in us (Philippians 1:6). It is during the detours and delays that we draw closer to God. We are empowered. We grow. We learn. We find clarity, gratitude, hope.
I am happy to report that the bridge re-opened last week. Woohoo. And the thing is superb. I don’t think any of us have ever been so jazzed about roadwork. Even the kids were asking to bring their friends across the new bridge!
Worth the wait.
Better than ever.
And so it will be for us.
With each and every detour.
In time.
The Lord will perfect that which concerns me; Your mercy O Lord, endures forever; Do not forsake the works of Your hands. Psalm 138:8 (NKJV)
August 30, 2017 at 11:58 am
Love this!! And although I won’t miss being late to school and sports events, I will miss the forced detour into some of chester county’s most beautiful roads and scenes! I now know where Bailey’s farm is to buy the kids favorite chocolate milk, and I also know where Northbrook Marketplace is, where you are bound to find some treats for dinner or dessert! I will mostly likely choose that long detour every once in a while just to stop by some of my new favorite places along the journey to sports!
August 30, 2017 at 12:31 pm
So true Vivian! I found some treasures during the detour days too. Lots of beauty we would have missed. And I made much more frequent stops at Northbrook…which benefitted everyone because you just can’t leave there without apple cider donuts:)
August 30, 2017 at 12:27 pm
thank you for another inspiring post
August 30, 2017 at 1:42 pm
Thanks Beth!
August 30, 2017 at 2:54 pm
Love this too. I was excited to cross it the Friday it opened (a week early) and got there about 15 minute before it opened. I was still excited that I made a point to cross it over the weekend rather than wait until Monday. I laughed at the high five part on the 52 bridge……funny but true.
August 30, 2017 at 4:52 pm
Glad you enjoyed it Danielle and got a kick out of the high five visual. A week early was a nice touch for sure!